Welcome to the Art of Wild Love
“There was never just one way to love. Never just one way to live. Never one blueprint that could hold the abundance of love.”
I’ve always been endlessly curious about reimagining the ways we can connect, belong, and love without losing ourselves.
Queer, solo polyamorous, and radically committed to deconstructing traditional relationship archetypes, I believe love should feel like a journey of freedom — not a finish line.
The Art of Wild Love is my living manifesto for intimacy without cages — a space where connection is crafted like art, sacredness meets sensuality, and love and freedom are at the core of our essence.
Here, I write about solo polyamory, sacred sexuality, tantric exploration, non-hierarchical intimacy, radical relating, and the beautifully wild art of choosing love without limits — where the heart is free to love.
The Art of Wild Love was born out of a simple, stubborn truth:
We deserve ways of loving — and living — that actually fit who we are. Not how they told us to be.
This is where we tear up the old map — of relationship escalators and fairy tale endings — and build intimacy, eroticism, community, and freedom from the raw materials of our own wild, untamed hearts.
Where we carve new paths as we go — not because we know the way or where we will end up, but because the journey itself is the destination.
It’s a space for anyone tired of trying to fit their love, their sexuality, or their relationships into someone else’s blueprint. For anyone whose heart refuses to be caged.
Here, we break free from the shackles of social conditioning — and create our own frameworks. We live our own truth, without shame, without fear — and we do so beautifully.
Here, we practice love as rebellion.
We talk about loving without ownership.
We build relationships without hierarchy.
We explore sexuality without shame.
We heal trauma without fear.
We create intimacy that is sacred, conscious, playful and authentic.
The Art of Wild Love isn’t about getting it “right.”
It’s about being real. With ourselves, with each other, with the abundant myriad of ways we love.
It’s about building lives, loves, and communities that feel honest, wild, and alive — that align with our own truth.
If you’re ready to break the old rules, reimagine what’s possible, and create a life and love story that’s fully, unapologetically yours — you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.
Love is not a contract.
It is freedom of the heart.
A garden that we nurture.
A dance that we improvise.
A revolution that we live.
Welcome to The Art of Wild Love.
— Lana
