Browse our upcoming events to find the one that feels right for you. We host events year-round in all different locations and climates.This is not a how-to guide. It is not a rulebook. It is a brave, honest space to explore one of the most complex and courageous things a person can choose — opening their heart, their relationship, and their life to more love.

We will explore the real terrain of ethical non-monogamy — from communication and consent to couple's privilege, jealousy, and the humanity of everyone involved. We will practise the conversations that most people avoid until it is too late. And we will leave with more than insight — we will leave with a plan.

Intimate enough to feel safe. Deep enough to feel alive.

Why we want to open and what we are really looking for
— The patterns that cause harm in non-monogany and how to avoid them
— Couple's privilege, veto power, and the ethics of the so-called unicorn hunt
— The four essential conversations every opening relationship needs to have
— Practical communication tools including how to say yes, no, and not yet with clarity and care
— How to date ethically: profiles, approach, transparency, and aftercare — Jealousy as information: meeting the feeling with curiosity rather than control
— Your personal ethical dating blueprint: a living document you leave with

This circle is for you if you are:

— Curious about opening a relationship and not sure where to begin
— Already non-monogamous and wanting to do it more consciously and ethically
— Solo and navigating the dynamics of dating partnered people
— In a relationship exploring how to expand without causing harm
— Anyone who believes that love can be generous, honest, and free and wants the tools to live that way

No experience of non-monogamy is necessary. All relationship structures and configurations are welcome. The circle is queer-inclusive, consent-led, and trauma-aware.

By the end of the evening you will have:

— A shared language for consent, autonomy, and ethical relating
— Clarity on what you are available for and what you are not
— A draft Connection Agreement: lightweight, editable, and genuinely yours
— A practical ethical dating plan: profiles, approach, boundaries, and aftercare
— Real-time experience of the conversations that open relationships most need
— A deeper felt sense of what conscious, ethical non-monogamy can look and feel like